MY PERSONALITY AND STYLE

I was born in the United States, grew up in Geneva, Switzerland and my family is Italian. My multi-national background makes me particularly sensitive to people’s cultures and value systems. I have lived in a variety of communities which has equipped me with the experience and knowledge to work comfortably with both “mainstream” and “alternative” people, whether it be in terms of culture, religion, or sexuality. I give credit to my Italian heritage for my warm and welcoming personality. I am expressive, empathic, funny (because humor does have a place in the work we do), and creative.

My Approach:

I think of us as experts coming to the table with different sets of expertise. I have several degrees and certifications and learned from 25 years of experience working with clients. My training in conflict analysis and resolution, IMAGO, and Gottman approaches is particularly helpful when I work with couples where we look at improving communication patterns, connection and intimacy, and reducing conflict. I frequently introduce psycho-education into therapy when it seems that a new skill is needed for clients to achieve well-being.

You are the best expert on you: you know what you’re thinking, what you’re feeling, what you’ve tried, what’s worked and what hasn’t. You know your strengths and your supports. We work as a team to figure out how to best get you to where you would like to be. My philosophy is that clients need to be understood as whole people within their context, and that their healing is a combination of teaching them the tools for a healthier life, honoring their strengths, empathizing with the difficulties they encounter, yet challenging them to grow despite obstacles.

You set the pace, you set the goals, and ultimately you are doing the mental and emotional growth!